See this??
Yep, it is the motorcycle Reed and I got engaged
on, left our wedding on, and then sold 2 years ago. But guess what?! WE GOT IT
BACK!
Yep. After years of dreaming, and many failed attempts to
save the funds up I was able to purchase this beauty back and surprise him with
it on our 3 year wedding anniversary.
After this I had so many people say “you are a keeper”, or “best
wife ever” and Reed even said he could never get me something as good as that.
But ultimately that wasn’t my goal. I wasn’t trying to win a battle of gift
giving, or the best wife award, or have the coolest pictures on social media
(even though I do because my super awesome and talented friend Mary, of Mary DeCrescenzio Photography, made sure we
captured this moment for all time).
My goal was to love my husband well. Show him that I see
those long hours, I see that sometimes he feels like he works all the time and
never gets time to just do what he wants. I see that. I see him agonize over
being able to put gas in the boat to go fish or go out for a quick bite at the Mexican
restaurant. I saw him sacrifice his wants for me and our family for over 2
years. I knew he wanted to give me more, he would tell me constantly that he
was sorry he couldn’t just let me go out and get the shoes I wanted. But each
month he took me out for a fun dinner, I got to buy fun little pieces for my
wardrobe or save funds for a trip with friends. He made sure that even when he
wasn’t getting what he wanted all the time that I was feeling loved and
supported.
During that time, when he was so selflessly giving to me, I
didn’t have a job. I tried, and my pride always got in my way but Reed would
remind me not to worry. We would figure it out. He would tell me not to get a
job just for the money, he had our needs taken care of. I could do what I felt
I needed to do, even if that was wait for my dream.
So when the time finally came that our budget grew, that my
dream job came true, I knew I had to let him know I saw all his sacrifice. That
is what this was about.
That my husband acted out the love of Christ for me for 2
years. He put me first. He lead our family the way we needed to go, even when
it was hard. I wanted to give him something to love him well and let him know
that HE gave ME the best gift. So no everyone, I am not the best wife ever; Reed
is the best husband ever and I am just saying thank you.
